Waaay back when... It was the summer of '75. As was the custom back then, a year off school after graduating, and the backpack grand tour of Europe. A girl friend and I merrily packed our bags and headed off into the world. We travelled around Europe for about 4 months and ended up wanting to go to Sicily as we thought we would escape the rain in Northern Europe. We had Eurorail passes so headed South in search of adventure. We spoke no Italian, and in Calabria, at that time, not many people spoke English. We arrived at the train station in Villa San Giovanni full of anticipation. But..no cash money..We needed to change our travelers cheques. We wandered forlornly around the station trying to find the currency exchange. Suddenly, we heard a friendly "Hello, you speak english?". Our saviour!! We turned around to see two gorgeous Italian guys standing there! Life is good! People who speak English, can help us find the exchange, and are good looking too! Haha, turned out it was a pickup line, and that was the extent of English they knew! After no luck in finding the currency exchange, we decided to ditch the guys, (even though they were cute) and carry on to Sicily on our rail passes and get some cash over there. So we said goodbye, and got onto the ferry. We settled into our seats, and patiently waited for the ferry to leave. It was boarding trains and cars, so it was taking a while. In the meantime we were gathering quite an audience. Being two young, blonde "Ameriani" we were quite a diversion for the Sicilian men on board. One of them approached and offered "cafe?" . No thank you.. Don't drink coffee. HMMMM?? ok, "cigarette", No, sorry don't smoke. Hmmmm? ok, apertifo? no sorry, don't drink. But that didn't deter him. He sent a young boy to get some drinks, and the little guy arrived back with a tray of drinks. Now it really was time to tell the guy where to get off! We we tired, broke, and sick of being hit on! So we told him to just leave us alone. Well... he went off!!!! Started yelling and gesturing that he was going to chop us up and throw us into the ocean! (At least that is what we thought he was saying with the cutting/chopping motions and throwing). As the ferry hadn't left yet, we decided to get off and take the next one. Whew. Crisis averted. So we got off the ferry and went back into the station. Oh no! what if those two guys were still around? Ok, lets go to the bar across the street and get coffee. That way they won't see us! Haha, walk into the bar on go to order coffee. All of a sudden the door opens, and we hear "4 cafe per favore". It was a voice we had heard before! They found us! Well, it turned out that they weren't so bad after all. We stayed for 4 months and the language of love won out! I survived the dreaded Italian MIL (although she wasn't one yet), even though my Italian was almost non existant. I won the hearts of all the "parenti" even though I was young, and a straniera. In the end, I brought my Italian back to Canada with me. (What a souvenier!) We have been married almost 34 years, have 2 children, and 5 grandchildren. After not going back to Italy for 31 years we took a trip in 2006 and are hooked! We both love spending our winters, away from our "empty nest". Bella Italia! mi manca. Chi redvriammo (not too sure on spelling, need to work on it!)a presto. Ciao for now.... to be continued.
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