Ciao ladies.
There is a group of us here in the USA studying l'italiano.
It has been difficult for me, although my teacher tells us not to use "difficult". It's negative, and sends out negative vibes.
We DO have to work hard at it.
My husband finally took a class at a local community college. I continue with the "Italian for Travelers style" which includes verb conjugations. For those of you living there, some basic studying would go a long way in understanding what you hear.
My husband, oops, mio murito e io,
listen to CDs at least a little each day. We are making progress, slowly, but we won't give up! (We tend to blame it on being 60, but I know I'm not an easy language learner, 'cause I tried it once in high school.)
You have a good group here that can help I'm sure, but we started two Meet-up groups (meetup.com) just for learning and practicing the language. Classes, parties, dinners, happy hours, study groups... and drinking wine really DOES help! (we relax and are willing to try speaking more.)
I have several books and CDs to recommend if anyone wants them.
My husband and I are traveling to Italy a month each year now*. Hopefully this Fall we'll be able to carry on a bit longer conversations, well, at least sentences!
(*This year: Venice, Castelfranco Veneto [father-in-laws birth city] Verona, Bologna [Parma, Rimini, Modena], Cinque Terre, and Varase] Visiting Simionis we have met on Facebook. No relatives -- yet!)
I wish we had your opportunity to spend more time in Italy and really learn the language. Don't miss out. You'll never forgive yourself!