January time is when you have to apply for a place in the state and comune nurseries for Sep 2010. Becca, why don't you apply for a part-time place for your daughter? Normally you should send them 5 days a week, but they are always sick anyway, and you can just sent them when u feel like it. I have a full time place at asilo nido for my 2 year old, but I only send him 9 - 12.30, and only when he is well, and he likes it now. My 3 year old didn't get a place at la materna because there were too many kids applying for the places, so I have to pay privately (280euro a month until 1pm) but you may be lucky and get a place in your area. It is worth applying because you can always change your mind they will not force you!
If you want to know how to apply go to your nearest nurseries and ask, or look on line. You can apply for one state school and one comunale.