I used to work for a large business to business ISP as a Project Manager and worked with a lovely Italian lady called Emy. One evening she decided to have a dinner party and invited a couple of the girls from work (me and Steph) and some of her italian male friends. Well her friend Alfie brought his housemate also Italian (Luca). Well we had a lovely meal and plenty of wine and somehow the topic of conversation turned to "how do you know when someone is attracted to you",( not my strong point as guys have to be quite obvious with me or I miss it- my dumb blonde moment) dont know who but someone started talking about when you are kids at school the boys show you they are attracted to you with aggression, next thing I know is someone is kicking me under the table, after a process of elimination I realised it was the very dishy guy who was Alfies housemate, well a bit more chat and then we stared to clear the table for dessert, after taking a pile of plates to the kitchen I returned to the most amazing snog, from Luca and the rest is history. We will celebrate our 9th wedding anniversary this christmas and have 2 gorgeous children. So a dinner party in Bradford turned out good for me.